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beauty – to be or not to be?! January 17, 2012

Posted by lillylikes in Personal.
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Femeile ar da orice sa fie mereu frumoase, mereu tinere, mereu atragatoare, mereu in centrul atentiei, mereu unice, mereu seducatoare, mereu orice numai sa arate bine. Inteleg si sunt perfect de acord cu acestea. Dar mai cred ca toate femeile ar trebui sa acorde o mare atentie felului cum se imbraca, cum se machiaza, manichiurii, pantofilor, hainelor, accesoriilor, etc. Imi dau de asemenea seama ca femeia moderna este tot timpul pe fuga, tot timpul contra cronometru, tot timpul este activa, face mai multe lucruri in paralel si asa mai departe. Poate de aceea observ ca multe femei fac unele lucruri care in loc sa le accentueze frumusetea si farmecul, le pune la polul opus.

Dintre aceste greseli am observat urmatoarele:

– femeile folosesc un fond de ten fie cu un ton de culoare mai inchis fie mai deschis pe care il intind pe fata pana spre maxilare, iar astfel la fiecare miscare se observa diferenta de culoare dintre pielea fetei si cea a gatului. Arata foarte artificial, arata a lucru facut in graba si nu avantajeaza cu absolut nimica. Daca nu aveti timp sa va puneti fondul de ten mai bine renuntati la el.

– femeile poarta papuci cu un numar mai mare – arata foarte urat un picior mic intr-un papuc mare. Voua va place la fiecare pas sa auziti zgomotul tocului urmat de un zgomot specific flip-flops-urilor?! Pe mine vazul si auzul acestor sunete ma face sa ma simt jenata fata de persoana care poarta astfel de papuci. Oricat de eleganti ar fi pantofii daca nu va gasiti marimea potrivita renuntati la ei.

– femeile folosesc rujul de buze in exces: fie depaseste conturul buzelor fie isi rujeaza si dintii. Nici nu stiu care varianta arata mai rau si mai dezgustator. Daca vreti buze voluptoase folositi un gel de buze care da senzatia de buze pline, voluptoase. Incercati sa nu depasiti conturul natural al buzelor si nu exagerati cu cantitatea !

– femeile poarta fuste elegante, dar isi iau ciorapi cu adunaturi pe ei (flocusati sau cum se numeste. Incercati sa aveti intotdeauna cate o pereche de ciorapi decenti undeva prin casa si pe care sa ii folositi in caz de nevoie.

– haine mai mici cu cateva numere, despre asta am mai scris aici.

– unghiile murdare, parul nefacut, tocurile pline de noroi, hainele patate sunt alte “mici” greseli care ar trebui evitate. Nu uitati capul si papucii sunt oglinda femeii!

Oare se poate ceva mai rau?! Probabil ca o combinatie a catorva optiuni de mai sus ar fi cu adevarat groaznica :). Astfel ca fetelor, incercati sa fiti naturale, fara exagerari, incercati sa gasiti echilibrul in tot ceea ce faceti cu corpul vostru, incercati sa gasiti o balanta a aspectului exterior. Si poate ca inainte de a iesi din casa, la ultima privire in oglinda intrebati-va: “Oare daca as vedea femeia aceasta pe strada ce as zice despre ea?!”

Poate ca regula “mult si bine” nu este intotdeauna valabila. Poate ca ar fi timpul sa incercam “less is best” si sa gandim “beautiful” inainte de “beauty”.

English version

Women would give anything to be always beautiful, always young, always attractive, always the centre of attention, always unique, always seductive, always anything just to look good. I understand it and I fully agree with these. But I also think that women should pay more attention to the way they dress, put on a make-up, to the manicure, shoes, clothes, accessories, etc. I also realize that the modern women is always on the run, always against the clock, always active, doing many things in parallel and so on. Maybe that is why I observe many women who do some things which instead of enhancing their beauty of charm, it does completely the opposite.

Among these mistakes I noticed the following:

– women who use a skin foundation either one colour tone darker or brighter, which they spread on the face towards the maxillary, and with every movement you can observe the difference between the face skin and the neck skin. It look very artificial, it looks like a thing done in haste and it does not help at all. If you do not have enough time to put on the right skin foundation better don’t put it at all.

– women wearing larger size shoes – a small foot in a big shoe does not look good at all. Do you enjoy hearing with every step the noise coming from the heel followed by a flip-flop noise?! To me, the sight and sound makes me feel embarrassed towards such a person wearing such shoes. No matter how elegant the shoes would be, if you do not find the right size give it up.

– women using lipstick in excess: it either goes beyond the natural lip contour or it even goes on the teeth. I don’t know which is worse or more disgusting. If you want to have voluptuous lips, use a lip gloss that gives the sensation of full, voluptuous lips. Try not to go beyond the natural contour of the lips and do not exaggerate with the quantity!

– women wearing elegant skirts, but also stockings with fluff on them. Try to have some decent pair of stockings somewhere in the house that you can use in case of need.

– clothes a few sizes smaller, I wrote about this here.

– dirty nails, undone hair, muddy heels, small stained clothes are also some other “small” mistakes that should be avoided. Do not forget that the head and shoes are a women’s mirror!

I wonder if there is something worse?! Probably a combination of the things listed above would be truly horrible :). So girls, try to be natural, without exaggerating, try to find an equilibrium in everything that you do with your body, try to find a balance for the outer look. And maybe before going out the door, at a last glance in the mirror ask yourself: “If I would see this women on the street , what would I say about her?!

Maybe the rule “good and lots of it” is not always true. Maybe it is time to try “less is best” and think “beautiful” before “beauty”.

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1. alina - January 18, 2012

Observatii foarte juste. As mentiona si accesorizarea in exces, precum si asortarea stricta, fara respectarea insa a proportiilor..(chiar daca verde “merge” cu galben, un pantalon verde si un tricou galben arata cumplit de anost, sau, in functie de nuante, de tipator);
am mai observat contur de buze contrastand cu rujul si, personal, am o mare problema cu sprancenele tatuate…machiajul trebuie sa accentueze si sa puna in valoare frumusetea naturala, nu sa fie o masca de carnaval.De acord cu tine, less is best.

2. lillylikes - January 18, 2012

Sa stii ca: accesorizare excesiva, tatuarea conturului buzelor sau a sprancenelor, sau mai rau pensarea totala a sprancenelor si apoi facuta o linie subtire cu creionul sunt pe lista mea. Nu am vrut sa fiu prea drastica sau sa fie un post prea lung. Fii sigura ca am sa revin asupra listei cu completari :).


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