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re-date…. December 4, 2011

Posted by lillylikes in Personal.
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Fiind in Norvegia de multa vreme, avand si un copil de 5 ani, si eu si sotul meu cu servici si activitatile domestice am observat ca vrem nu vrem am inceput sa intram intr-o rutina. Rutina care se instaleaza incetul cu incetul pana ajungem sa nici nu mai trebuiasca sa ne spunem in cuvinte ce ar trebui facut, ce planuri avem in weekend sau ce facem serile. Poate ca rutina nu ar fi asa mare daca am avea familia cu noi, macar asa am avea si noi pe cineva sa ne enerveze/sa ne supere/sa ne critice mai des si sa ne strice rutina zilnica :). Ma rog, dar pe langa astea poate ca te-ar mai si ajuta din cand in cand, de voie de nevoie :), macar cand am vrea sa iesim pana in oras, sau sa mergem la un film pentru “cei cu varsta de peste 12 ani” ca deja de filmele Disney m-am saturat 🙂 mai ales de cele cu printese… :).

In fine, aseara doi buni prieteni (R&S, by the way, multumesc frumos inca o data) au stat cu fiica noastra (am inteles ca a fost cuminte) si am am iesit si eu si sotul meu la o petrecere.  A fost super frumos. Mai mult pentru faptul ca am fost amandoi, frumosi si tineri (… mai mult el) si sexy (… mai mult el) :), fara griji (… mai mult eu) sau alte ganduri (… mai mult eu) si asa parca dintr-o data mi-am adus readus aminte de acel “ceva”. Ceva-ul acela care a ramas undeva in spatele rutinei, ceva-ul acela pe care de obicei ai tendinta sa il neglijezi in ziua de zi cu zi… Stiti despre ce vorbesc?! E vorba de ceva-ul acela care iti spune/te face sa simti ca el/ea este “the one“.

Astfel, ca aseara, dupa mult timp, am avut amandoi un “re-date” unde parca ne-am “redescoperit” :). Dupa 6 ani de casnicie, dupa un copil, dupa serviciile noastre, dupa toate problemele, dupa toate transformarile fizice si psihice a fost interesant sa redescopar ca acel sentiment e tot acolo si ca e tot la fel… ba nu, poate ca e putin transformat… e un pic mai puternic :). Apoi am mai realizat, ca poate nu ai nevoie de o petrecere pentru a redescoperi acel sentiment, e nevoie doar de 5 minute de liniste, in care sa nu te gandesti la nimic altceva, doar sa stai si sa il privesti pe omul de langa tine… si sentimentul (daca mai e acolo undeva ascuns) va iesi la iveala. Daca sentimentul nu apare nici dupa alte 10 minute, atunci e grav, nu pentru tine, tu esti OK n-ai nimic chiar te vei simti mult mai bine… cred ca mai grav va fi pentru persoana de langa tine :).

Asa ca va doresc la toti oriunde ati fi 5 minute de liniste. Eu pot doar sa ii spun sotului meu ca “you, complete me”…. inca :).

English version

Being in Norway for a long time, and also having a 5 year-old child, both I and my husband with work and domestic activities, I noticed that willing or not we started to get into a routine. A routine that installs slowly but surely until we don’t even have to say in words what we should do, what week-end plans we make, or what we do during the evenings. Maybe this routine would not be so obvious if we had the family with us, at least we would have someone to annoy us/bother us/criticize us more often and spoil the daily routine :). Anyway, but besides this maybe they would help from time to time, willing or not :), at least when we would like to go out to town, or see a movie for “audience above 12 years” because I got kind of sick of Disney movies 🙂 especially the ones with princesses… :).

Finally, last evening two good friends (R&S, by the way, thank your very much again) babysat our daughter (I understand she behaved) and I and my husband could go out for a party. It was very nice. More for the fact that we went together, young and beautiful (… more him) and sexy (…more him) :), and worry-less (…more me) or thought-free (…more me) and so, almost suddenly, I remembered  that certain “something”. That something that keeps existing back that routine, that certain something that one tends to neglect daily… You know what I mean?! It is about the certain something that tells you/makes you feel that he/she is “the one“.

Last evening, after a long time, we both had a “re-date” where we kind of “rediscovered” ourselves :). After 6 years of marriage, after a child, after our jobs, after all the problems, after all physical and mental transformations, it was interesting to rediscover that that certain feeling is still there and it is the same… maybe not, maybe it is a bit transformed… it is stronger 🙂. Then I realized, that maybe you do not really need a party to rediscover that feeling, all it takes is maybe 5 minutes of peace, during which you don’t think about nothing else, just to sit and look at the man next to you… and the feeling (if it still exists somewhere hidden) will come out. If the feeling doesn’t surface after another 10 minutes, then it is serious, not for you, you are OK, you’d feel even better… I guess it would be worse for the one next to you :).

So I wish you all wherever you are, 5 minutes of peace. I can only say to my husband that “you, complete me”…. still :).

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