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Everybody has a “thing”. December 2, 2011

Posted by lillylikes in Personal.
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De la inceputul acestui blog m-am gandit sa fac o categorie speciala printre posturile mele. O categorie despre oameni! Oameni simpli, oameni pe care ii cunosc, oameni cu care sunt prietena si ne stim de multa vreme… dar as vrea sa am si oameni in aceasta categorie pe care nu ii stiu deloc, oameni cu care am schimbat  doar cateva cuvinte, dar din felul lor de a fi, de a te privi si de a povesti simti ca se naste o “chimie”, simti ca iti merg la inima, simti ca ai vrea sa stii cat mai multe despre ei. Deci, sper ca va fi o categorie despre oamenii pe care ii intalnesc si care ma inspira si despre care simt ca as putea sa vorbesc.

M-am gandit apoi ca fiecare om este un mic Univers si fiecare dintre aceste universuri are o “chestie”. Chestia este ca, acea “chestie” ne face unici si speciali :). In viata de zi cu zi, fiecare dintre noi face cam aceleasi lucruri: te trezesti, bei cafeaua… milioane de oameni beau aceeasi cafea ca si tine si le place; te speli pe dinti… milioane de oameni folosesc aceeasi pasta de dinti, si le place; iti place mancarea de la un anumit restaurant.. dar si la alte milioane de persoane le place exact aceeasi mancare; iti place de sotul tau/sotia ta… dar si la alte milioane de persoane le place exact acelasi lucru, ups, am glumit, poate nu chiar la atatea :)… In fine, cred ca ati prins ideea…

Acum, la nivel personal aceasta chestie poate fi orice, poate fi un mod unic de a vedea lucrurile, poate fi un mod inedit de a te relaxa, poate fi un obiect, poate fi o idee, poate fi o persoana, poate fi orice. Dar un orice care te face special, ceva care te ajuta sa te relaxezi, ceva ce folosesti atunci cand esti concentrat, ceva care te face sa te simti special, care te face sa gandesti special, care te face sa te gandesti ca ai vrea sa il transferi copiilor tai mai tarziu, poate fi ceva atat de personal incat nimeni sa nu fi stiut de el, poate fi ceva atat de special incat nimeni sa nu stie de el… numai eu, bineinteles :), poate fi un tic, poate ca nici nu iti dai seama ca ai o “chestie” ca asta pana nu te intreb eu…

Acum sa nu va ganditi ca o sa iau persoana, ii pun o poza aici pe blog si o sa scriu “uite ea/el e, si uite ce “chestie” are”… Nu, nici pe departe. Toate persoanele vor fi sub anonimat, celor care vor bineinteles ca o sa le public numele cu acordul lor. Cred ca va fi interesant…

O sa incep cu persoane apropiate, nu cu toate ca nu toate ma inspira, sorry guys 🙂 si mai tarziu poate ajung si la anumite persoane publice. Cred cu adevarat ca nu conteaza: cati bani ai, cat esti de frumos, cat esti de grozav, ce pozitie sociala ai, sexul, rasa, de unde vii sau altele de acest gen, ca sa ajungi sa scriu despre tine aici pe blog. Poate fi oricine, poate fi cineva intalnit oriunde… trebuie doar sa simt ca e ceva special, sa vorbim jumatate de ora despre acea “chestie” si apoi sa ii scriu povestea aici pe blog… Este ca un experiment pe durata nedeterminata si care as vrea sa arate ca: toata lumea are o chestie, una personala, unica, crescuta in sufletul tau, si este o chestie care te face mandru ca o ai…

Acum, daca o sa cititi prin ziare ca cineva i-a hartuit pe totii actorii de la Hollywood sa le spuna “chestia” lor, sa stiti ca eu am fost :)… Cred ca va fi un pic ciudat sa ii abordez cu ceva de genu: “so, would you like to tell me about your thing?”, bineinteles acompaniata si de un  zambet tamp :)…

English version

Ever since I started this blog, I thought about making a special category among my posts. A category about people! Simple people, people I know, people I befriended and known for a long time… but I would like to include also people that I do not know at all, people with whom I exchanged only a few words, but from their way of being, of looking to thinks and tell about them you fell a certain “chemistry”, you feel that it goes to your heart, feel that you would like to know more about them. So, I hope that it will be a category about people I meet and inspire and about whom I feel I could talk to.

Then I thought that every person is a small Universe, and each of these universes has a “thing”. The thing is that that particular “thing” is what makes us unique and special:). Every, day, each of us makes kind of the same things: you wake up, drink your coffee… other million of people drink that same coffee and like it; you brush your teeth… millions of people use the same toothpaste and like it too; you like to eat at a certain restaurant… but maybe another million of people enjoy exactly the same food; you like your husband/wife… but also other millions of people like them too, ups, just joking, maybe not that many :)… Finally, I guess you got the idea…

Now, at a personal level this thing can be anything, it can be a unique way to see things, it can be a special way to relax, it can be an object, it can be an idea, it can be a person, it can be anything. But this anything makes you special, something that helps you relax, something you use you are focused, something that makes you feel special, something that makes you think in a special way, that makes you think about passing it on to your children, it can be something so personal that nobody knew about it, it can be something so special that nobody knows about… except me, of course :), it can be a tic, maybe you cannot realize that you have such a “thing” until I ask…

Now, do not think that I will pick a person, put a picture here on the blog and write “here he/she is, and here is his/her “thing”… No, far from it. Everybody will be anonymous, those who wish I can of course publish their names with their consent. This would be interesting…

I will start with people close to me, not with everybody because not everybody inspires me, sorry guys 🙂 and later I can get maybe to some public figures. I really think that it does not matter: how much money you have, how nice you are, how cool you are, what social status you have, your sex, race, where you come from and other like this, to write about you on my blog. It can be anyone, someone met anywhere… I just have to feel that he/she is special, just talk about half an hour about that particular “thing” and then write its story on the blog… It is a kind of experiment on an undetermined period and which I would like to show that: everybody has a thing, a personal one, unique, grown in your soul, and it is a thing that makes you proud to have…

Now, if you read somewhere in the papers that there is someone who harassed all the Hollywood actors to tell about their “thing”, you would know it was me :)… I guess it would be kind of weird to approach them with something like: “so, would you like to tell me about your thing?”, of course together with a dumb smile :)…

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