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1 big mistake… December 2, 2011

Posted by lillylikes in Fashion.

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Cred ca o greseala enorma pe care o fac unele femei, cand vine vorba de moda, este faptul ca nu se imbraca adecvat varstei si situatiei in care se afla. Hai sa zicem ca ai fost la o petrecere cu o zi inainte si a doua zi te duci cu o haina mai stralucitoare sau cu o coafura mai deosebita, etc, inteleg, se mai intampla. Dar cel mai deranjant pentru mine este faptul ca nu pot sa nu observ fete si femei in jurul meu, care se imbraca total neadecvat varstei lor. Asta parca ma zgarie pe retina. Acum eu am observat urmatoarele categorii:

1. Fete de 14-16-18 ani de ani imbracate ca la 30-40 de ani

2. Femei de 30 de ani imbracata ca la 16 ani

3. Femei de peste 50 de ani imbracate ca la 16-20

Nici nu stiu care categorie sa zic ca e mai rea… Nici una nu imi place pentru simplul motiv ca nu se imbina si nu este armonios, nu este o frumusete naturala, este ceva fortat si cred ca in final hainele nepotrivite te fac vulgara, te fac ieftina, te fac sa pari imatura.

Hai sa zic ca fetele tinere au o scuza, poate pentru ca vor sa isi copieze mamele, poate din dorinta de a parea mai mature si pregatite sa infrunte viata se imbraca cu haine de “femei” etc.  Dar, femeile de peste 30 de ani nu cred ca au nici o scuza sa se imbrace ca la 16. Atunci cand:

– ai cu mult peste greutatea normala;

– ai pielea de pe maini/piept plina de riduri;

– ai fundul enorm;

– ai picioare groase;

– nu ai talie deloc, numai colacei ca si omuletul Michelin;

– ai pieptul mare si lasat, care se misca in voia soartei pe sub bluze sau topuri subtiri;

nu mi se pare estetic/natural/normal sa porti ciorapi de plasa + fuste de piele + bluze transparente + papuci cu toc de 12cm cand esti la serviciu (ma rog depinde si de ce fel de serviciu ai, e drept); fuste foarte-foarte scurte; rochii/bluze/topuri cu 2 numere mai mici; pantaloni stramti si/sau semi-transparenti care iti lasa fundul descoperit; sa vii fara sutien.

Cu varsta corpul e clar ca se transforma, nu va mai arata ca la 16 ani niciodata. Cred ca trebuie sa invatam sa ne acceptam si sa ne iubim corpul asa cum e, sa invatam sa ne punem in valoare calitatile pe care le avem, sa ascundem defectele pe cat se poate, sa purtam combinatii de haine potrivite corpului nostru, adecvate cu momentul din zi si adecvate locului unde vrei sa le porti. Sunt absolut sigura ca daca faceti asta frumusetea va veni in mod natural, veti raspandi in jurul vostru armonie si totul va arata perfect.

As vrea sa fiu buna si sa va spun ca asemenea haine si combinatiile lor va fac mai sexy, mai incitante si mai provocatoare, dar pur si simplu nu pot… pentru ca ar fi o mare minciuna. In final poate ca a fi bun inseamna sa fii in primul rand corect! Incepeti si voi sa fiti corecte cu voi insiva. Acum!

English version

I think that one big mistake that some women make, when it comes to fashion, is the fact that they do not dress adequately to the age and status they have. Let’s say that you were at a party the previous day, and the next day you wear a shiny piece of clothing or a more special hairdo, etc, I understand, it can happen. But what was more disturbing for me was that I cannot help noticing girls and women around that dress totally inadequate to their age.This kind of scratches on my retina. Now, I observed the following categories:

1. Girls at 14-16-18 years dressed like a 30-40 year-old.

2. Women at 30 years dressed like a 16 year-old.

3. Women over 50 dressed like a 16-20 year old.

I don’t know which one is worse… I don’t like none of them for the simple reason that it does not combine and it is not in harmony, it is not a natural beauty, it is something forced and I believe that in the end unsuited clothes make you vulgar, cheap and seem immature.

Let’s say that the young girls may have an excuse, maybe they want to copy their mothers, maybe it comes from their wish to seem more mature and ready to face life that is why they wear “women” clothes. But for women over 30 I don’t think there is an excuse to dress like a 16 year-old. When:

– you are well over your normal weight;

– you have a wrinkled skin on arms/chest;

– you a have a big bottom;

– you have thick legs;

– you have no waist, only coils like the Michelin man;

– you have a big and dropped chest, that moves freely under shirts and thin tops;

it does not seem at all aesthetic/natural/normal to wear net stockings + leather skirts + transparent blouses + high heels 12 cm shoes when you go to work (well, I guess it depends also what kind of job you have, that’s true); very-very short skirts; dresses/blouses/tops 2 numbers smaller; tight pants and/or semi-transparent that leave your bottom uncovered; not wearing a bra.

The body clearly transforms along with the age, it will never look again like at 16 years. I guess that we have to learn to accept ourselves and love our body as it is, to learn how to put into value the qualities we have, to hide our defects as much as we can, to wear combinations of clothes suited to our body, adequate for the moment of day and adequate to the place where you want to wear them. I am absolutely sure that if you do this beauty will come naturally, you will spread around harmony and everything will look perfect.

I wish I could be good and tell you that such clothes and their combinations will make you more sexy, more exciting and more provocative, but I simply cannot… because it would be a big lie. In the end maybe being good means first to be fair! Start by being fair to yourselves. Now!



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